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T O P I C R E V I E Wlilypad18anyone?coolingembersI'm inlilypad18great, what's ur q?mine: Does T miss me?coolingembersill grab my cards right now. Why is J treating me the way that he is? lilypad182 of swords clarifier by 4 of cupsjudgement clarifier by King of pentaclesworld clarifier by page of cupsI think he wants to end whatever he has with you. he is acting like a little child right now, maybe he thinks that there is a lot of things out there that he is missing and it is your fault that he's missing them, so he treats u like that as a punishmentI wasn't really confident about what this spread was telling me so I did another one:Rx hierophant - 10 of Pents- Rx towerthis confirms what I was thinking; he isn't thinking clearly right now, he thinks that he is missing a lot of good stuff, and that he shouldn't be with you, but he is afraid of leaving you (of making a change in his life, he is basically delaying this decision a lothe is being quite selfish at the moment, thinking only about him, probably about his work, how his work can improve, how his life can improve, leaving you behind himbasically he feels restricted, and he wants to rebel in some way, but he isn't doing it the right way, causing unnecessary pain cause he just doesn't understand how to do the right thingcoolingembersI pulled for your question and noticed there were mostly wands.8 Wands - Knight Pents - Ace of WandsWhenever i get wands in reading it almost always means moving forward, action, change, spark, new. Combined with the 8 of wands (which is a group of horses racing down a hill), the notion of action is validated. The knight of Pents is him. He is not mature, he is not evolved yet. I think he is keeping busy. Although thats not saying that he doe snot miss you. I have a feeling he is throwing himself into something else to distract himself. lilypad18so... he does miss me a lil but keeping himself busy from feeling that..?coolingembersxcoolingembers quote:Originally posted by lilypad18:so... he does miss me a lil but keeping himself busy from feeling that..?Yes. I should of been more clear. Yes, he does miss you. He is trying to combat that by throwing himself into other things, distractions. lilypad18from experience, I'd say to talk with him, cause if that's what he wants, and that's how he acts, you may wake up one day and he may be gone for real without an explanation, or a short explanation, so talk with him but seriouslyfrom the cards..: Rx 6 of wands - King of pentacles - Rx Queen of cupsI found this on the Internet for the Rx six of W, which tells things better than me:"With the Six of Wands reversed, you may find yourself doubting your abilities and your potential for success. You may feel negatively about yourself and as if you have failed both yourself and others. You are lacking confidence, and need the support and recognition of others to pick you up and give you strength again."with this, u feeling unconfident on the relationship, and with the queen of cups there, I'd say to relax, chill, calm down, take a bath and let your feelings and intuition run through you. after that, knowing what you already know, start analyzing him, start looking at what he does, objectively with patience, see what are his next moves, but be sure about how u act, never doubt. I think in the end you will end up leaving hiss asslilypad18 quote:Originally posted by coolingembers: Yes. I should of been more clear. Yes, he does miss you. He is trying to combat that by throwing himself into other things, distractions. great! thanks!coolingembersThank you for taking the time to do all that. lilypad18you are welcome, I understand how you feel.. In any case, I hope everything turns out well for youcoolingembersI hope the same to you. Thank you again.
mine: Does T miss me?
Why is J treating me the way that he is?
I think he wants to end whatever he has with you. he is acting like a little child right now, maybe he thinks that there is a lot of things out there that he is missing and it is your fault that he's missing them, so he treats u like that as a punishment
I wasn't really confident about what this spread was telling me so I did another one:
Rx hierophant - 10 of Pents- Rx tower
this confirms what I was thinking; he isn't thinking clearly right now, he thinks that he is missing a lot of good stuff, and that he shouldn't be with you, but he is afraid of leaving you (of making a change in his life, he is basically delaying this decision a lothe is being quite selfish at the moment, thinking only about him, probably about his work, how his work can improve, how his life can improve, leaving you behind himbasically he feels restricted, and he wants to rebel in some way, but he isn't doing it the right way, causing unnecessary pain cause he just doesn't understand how to do the right thing
8 Wands - Knight Pents - Ace of Wands
Whenever i get wands in reading it almost always means moving forward, action, change, spark, new. Combined with the 8 of wands (which is a group of horses racing down a hill), the notion of action is validated. The knight of Pents is him. He is not mature, he is not evolved yet. I think he is keeping busy. Although thats not saying that he doe snot miss you. I have a feeling he is throwing himself into something else to distract himself.
quote:Originally posted by lilypad18:so... he does miss me a lil but keeping himself busy from feeling that..?
Yes. I should of been more clear. Yes, he does miss you. He is trying to combat that by throwing himself into other things, distractions.
from the cards..:
Rx 6 of wands - King of pentacles - Rx Queen of cups
I found this on the Internet for the Rx six of W, which tells things better than me:
"With the Six of Wands reversed, you may find yourself doubting your abilities and your potential for success. You may feel negatively about yourself and as if you have failed both yourself and others. You are lacking confidence, and need the support and recognition of others to pick you up and give you strength again."
with this, u feeling unconfident on the relationship, and with the queen of cups there, I'd say to relax, chill, calm down, take a bath and let your feelings and intuition run through you. after that, knowing what you already know, start analyzing him, start looking at what he does, objectively with patience, see what are his next moves, but be sure about how u act, never doubt. I think in the end you will end up leaving hiss ass
quote:Originally posted by coolingembers: Yes. I should of been more clear. Yes, he does miss you. He is trying to combat that by throwing himself into other things, distractions.
great! thanks!
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